It's become that time of the year when everyone tries to cram in as much as they can in the last few weeks--I've got holiday parties, visits, and meetings galore for December--not to mention a birthday creeping around the corner next week. It's also that time of year when I really reflect on what I have and what I've gained. Even though Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday, it's hard to love it as much when the reason--me being with my family with a feast--is moot. But regardless of where we all are, I've realized being apart has made us much stronger, and more appreciative of the times we do get to spend together. And for that, I am thankful. In fact, I'm thankful for a lot of things that have happened this year...
-My job: Even though it's crazy and causes me to think I have an alcohol problem, I am so thankful to have a job and to be in the field I want to be in. I am learning so much and am thankful that this is truly a great start to my career.
-My friends: I am so thankful to have the friends that I have, old and new, and to constantly be reminded that I am never alone, even in this big city.
-My apartment: I am so glad I was able to find an apartment and it's perfect for where I am at now in my life. It forced me to come out of my comfort zone and experience life outside of the Upper East Side, and I am also thankful I can afford a door and a room now!
-My sorority: Without Alpha Gamma Delta, I wouldn't be the person I am today (cheesy I know). I have met most of my friends though the alumni group here in NYC, and I absolutely love advising a chapter. Alpha Gam has taught me that we are never done growing or learning, and I continually thank this organization for helping me become a stronger woman.
-My family: I am thankful to have a completely nutty, dysfunctional family who loves me no matter how far away I am. My family taught me so much and given me the strength I needed to be independent and follow my dreams.
-New York: I wouldn't be as happy as I am or come as far as I have without this wonderfully crazy, exciting, scary city I now call my home.
I hope you all have just as much to be thankful for this year. It's hard to believe the year is almost over, and the horror that is winter in New York is upon us. But cheer up everyone, Jennifer Month begins tomorrow--how are you celebrating?
xoxo,
Ms. Manhattan